Sep
3

September!

by Sofia   -   in Random

Oh I love Fall! Now we can talk all out Pumpkin spice, umbrellas and cozy nights on the sofa without someone saying ” but it´s still summer!”. Yes! It was the hottest and most delicious summer in a while in Finland. It really felt like summer! A long, lovely summer. But now it´s time for Fall. How I love Fall! Cardigans and cups of tea. Who´s with me? Who is ready for blackberry crumble and apple pie? Who is ready for the rainy mornings? When you can wear your pretty Hunters and favourite umbrella and listen to ” Singing in the rain” on you headphones on your way to work. Say yes! Say yes to Fall. Say yes to days when you can stay inside and not feel guilty wanting to cuddle under your duvet with your favourite book. Embrace it! Enjoy it.

And as always I´m curing the holiday hangover from coming from one holiday by booking the next one. Paris with Bubble Gum & my mom is lined up and we can not wait to go.

Have a great start of the week,

Lattemamma

p.s. Pictured is Bubble Gum in 2013, truly embracing Fall!

Aug
31

Good Morning

by Sofia   -   in Random

I wish you the loveliest of weekend! We left on our little South of France trip yesterday. Last bits of summer before it´s September. A farewell of sorts. Love it!

Lattemamma

Aug
22

Living your best life

by Sofia   -   in Random

What have you been grateful for lately? I have, as always, about some of the little things. My kids taking small but significant steps towards a little more independent life. New cookbooks to give me inspiration as our lives roll from holidays to the everyday routines. A pretty bouquet of flowers that gives me joy to no end. Some great weekends spent with friends and their families on our island and theirs.

My favourite kind of time spent with friends must be on cottages and ski cabins. Days spent together without make up and as hassle free and relaxed as possible. No fuss. Just us. Kids doing their own thing playing outside for hours. Cooking together. Having big family meals. Listening to our kids talk and wondering if they are so different from how we used to be as children and if it is a bad thing at all ( of course it´s not!).

There is nothing fancy or luxurious about our summer cottage if you do not count silence and nature as luxuries. It´s a very shabby and rural place but we love it just as such.  I do not mind the least. As life is not about competing with others for the nicer and better. It is about finding what you love and filling your life with that. Building a life that is right just for you. Doing things that make you and your family feel happy and content.

This is a subject that has been on my mind lately as we have, as a family, made some changes in our lives and as that have had to think where we want to be next. We have sold our lovely and much loved apartment and bought a new one. The apartment we currently have was always meant to be temporary but we did build it as a home to love and a home to live in. For me it´s always a little hard to say goodbye. But luckily we still get to spend the rest of the year here so I have my time to move on physically as well as mentally. Anyway, as we were pondering where life would take us next the only thing we needed to take in to consideration was our family. Us and the children. Where we wanted to be, to live next. If this was going to be our home for the unforeseeable future, luck be, then what would benefit our family most. It is a decision where you do not count other people´s opinions in. We have great friends who sold their beautiful city apartment to move closer to their kids school and friends so they did not have to spent hours a day in a car commuting. It was a fantastic choice for their family and they now have a gorgeous house where they are. In their decision they too took in to consideration what was best for them and their family. How their life would be most hassle free. More time with their children outside a car.

And it goes beyond houses. Why would we do anything or live our lives doing things for any other reason than to make our lives more enjoyable, or easier, or convenient. If we need to be closer to our parents to start taking care of them then it is a decision for our family. Or if we need to be closer to a school or friends then it´s the right decision for us. If we like to spend our holidays on a shabby cottage or if a family loves to travel easily on a package holiday it´s what they or who ever finds best for their family. I applaud everyone for doing so without thinking what others may think or feel about the change or the decision. There will always be someone wondering about your choices or second guessing them for you from their perspective. But never mind them. You know what you love and what makes you happy. It´s not like you are going to decorate your house to please others, you make it yours. To be a place that you love and cherish. The same should apply to everything. Making your choices for you and your family. Living a full life may mean skydiving for others and reading a book in the nook of a sofa for some. It´s not about doing things you don´t like feeling pressured to do it it´s about doing things you love because they give you joy. I would never find joy in jumping from a high place but I know people who do.  They would probably hate planning a child´s birthday party for longer than it takes to shop at the supermarket. We get along brilliantly.